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在得知別人不喜歡你后，會感到難過、自尊心被摧毀？外國博主小姐姐Kasey分享了令自己受益匪淺的一個道理，教你學(xué)會不在乎不喜歡你的人。

Kasey在視頻中講到，自己曾發(fā)現(xiàn)人們要么很喜歡她，要么很討厭她，兩者沒有中間的狀態(tài)，這讓她感到十分困擾：她希望大家都能喜歡自己。有一天，當(dāng)Kasey向自己的一位教練抱怨這件事時，教練用一個非常形象的比喻，教給她從不同角度看待這個問題，令她受益匪淺：

“你要明白，你是一塊磁鐵。在你吸引別人的同時，你也會以同樣的力量排斥另一些人。如果你改變了你自己，改變自己的行為，好讓自己減少排斥某些人的力量，你同樣也會減少自己對另一些人的吸引力。”
“You are a magnet. And by the same force that you attract people, you are going to repel others. And if you change who you are and change your behavior so that you can lessen the force with which you repel some people, you will also lessen the force by which you attract others.”



“別再關(guān)注那些不喜歡你的人了，把注意力集中在喜歡你的人身上，他們才是重要的人。吸引力和排斥力是相互存在的。當(dāng)你用你的愛、熱情和能量吸引別人的時候，你也可能會惹惱其他人。但那是他們的問題，不是你的。”
“You need to stop paying attention to people that just don't like you, and keep focusing on the ones that do. They are the ones that matter. And you need to just know they cannot have one without the other. So as forcefully as you attract people with your love and your passion and your energy, you're going to annoy other people too. It's their problem, not yours.”

怎么樣，你同意小姐姐講的嗎？

來源：TikTok @abetterjones