還記得今年4月90后單親爸爸鈄皓倍帶著4歲女兒兜兜騎行去拉薩的新聞嗎?當(dāng)時,父女倆的這段溫馨經(jīng)歷感動了無數(shù)網(wǎng)友。
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而如今完成騎行后,這位父親又有了新想法:要帶她去上叫做“全國”的幼兒園。
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據(jù)央視新聞報道,1994年出生的鈄皓倍,是一位東莞的單身父親。他原本是一名服裝從業(yè)者。疫情發(fā)生以來,4歲的女兒兜兜一直沒有去上幼兒園,他的工作也停滯了下來。
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For Dou Haobei, who runs a clothes shop in south China's Guangdong Province, the outbreak of COVID-19 has offered him a chance to carry his four-year-old daughter to Tibet on a bicycle, a journey that he had long dreamed of.
On one hand, Doudou, which is his daughter's pet name, did not have to go to kindergarten; on the other hand, Dou had few customers to receive.
20歲時,鈄皓倍曾騎行川藏線,他一直想著什么時候可以重新回到拉薩。今年4月,他決定帶著女兒,一起出發(fā)。
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Dou is a sports lover and rich in outing experience. At the age of 20, he rode a bicycle to Tibet. "Just like what a song has described, every man who has been to Tibet has always expected to return someday," he said.
Dou decided to take his daughter with him, as he believed that nature and the company of parents are the best teachers for children.
經(jīng)過改造,單車后面裝了一個小拖車。里面裝著春夏秋冬的衣物、日常的藥品,還有零食,遇到吹風(fēng)下雨,鈄皓倍就把女兒裝進(jìn)小拖車?yán)?。他還購置了無人機(jī),用來給自己和女兒拍照。目標(biāo)是拉薩,他們就這樣從東莞出發(fā)了。
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Before departure, he bought a bike trailer to put his daughter in, packed enough clothes for four seasons, drafted a detailed route with accommodation plans and prepared necessary medicine as well as snacks and toys for Doudou in case she felt bored on the way. He also bought a drone that was used to take photos of them.
鈄皓倍帶著女兒一路上,看到一望無際的農(nóng)田、錯落有致的村莊、誤入山村小路、收獲一片玫瑰花海、在蔚藍(lán)靜謐的洱海邊散步、在玉龍雪山下奔跑騎馬,爬上了海拔5130米的東達(dá)山……
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一路上,鈄皓倍堅(jiān)持用手機(jī)和無人機(jī)記錄下點(diǎn)點(diǎn)滴滴,以便她在長大后能夠清楚地看到他們是如何翻山越嶺,穿越湖泊河流。
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On the journey covering Guangdong, Guangxi, Yunnan and Tibet, they saw golden wheat waves, starry skies and wildlife — views that were totally different from those near their urban home.
"Doudou had never seen such scenes before. I could feel she was very excited," Dou recalled, adding that he even joined her singing loudly on a starry night at the lakeside of Erhai in Yunnan Province.
“詩與遠(yuǎn)方”雖然美好,背后更多的是不易與堅(jiān)持。
在云南紅拉山,較大的坡度和一直下雨的天氣,為鈄皓倍和女兒的騎行帶來很大阻力,原本70公里的計(jì)劃,當(dāng)天他只完成了30多公里。最后,父女倆卡在了山上的一個小村莊。“根本找不到住宿的地方,幸好遇到熱心的藏民,借宿了一晚。”
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The trip was not always easy.
Once as they traveled along a steep road in the mountainous area of Yunnan, it started raining. Everything was wet, and Dou had to drag the heavy vehicle while watching for falling stones.
"We trekked all the way up to the village, only to find the inn I found on the internet was not open," he recalled. Luckily, a local Tibetan villager took them in.
除了堅(jiān)持,一路上,父女倆還收獲了善意,學(xué)會分享。
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“我一直在發(fā)抖音,很多人都關(guān)注了我們。后來還有人在路上看到我們 ,給兜兜送吃的,車?yán)锒伎煅b不下了。夜晚還有不認(rèn)識的司機(jī)幫我在后面打燈照明,讓我們非常感動。”
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On the way, they met many cyclists. Some had followed his account online, and many others were strangers.
"Many encouraged us and treated Doudou with snacks, which made her very happy," he said, adding that so many small gifts had filled the trailer that it almost had no room for Doudou to put her feet.
而父女倆的旅程當(dāng)時也引發(fā)了一些爭議,包括親戚在內(nèi)的一些人并不理解鈄皓倍的做法,認(rèn)為這位年輕的父親路上會照顧不好女兒,還有人擔(dān)心四歲的兜兜到了西藏后會有高原反應(yīng)。
Their journey drew criticism as well. Some people, including their relatives, worried that the young father was unable to take care of the child on the way, while some others said it was improper to take a four-year-old girl to Tibet, a high-altitude region that may sicken the child.
但對于鈄皓倍而言,其實(shí)最重要的是跟女兒之間的溫暖的親子回憶。
“就是可能在她人生的任何節(jié)點(diǎn),當(dāng)她重新去西藏的時候,她會有不一樣的情感,她會記得,我小的時候,我4歲的時候,爸爸曾經(jīng)騎著單車就帶我來到這里。”
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在這段騎行路上,鈄皓倍也給女兒寫了一封信:
希望教會你人生的一課叫堅(jiān)持,東莞到拉薩有四千多公里,其中有十幾座高海拔的山,這個距離看著好遠(yuǎn)好遠(yuǎn),可當(dāng)你堅(jiān)持下來,每天積累跬步,便可行四千多公里,你的人生也是一樣。
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如今完成騎行后,他決定讓女兒邊旅行邊讀書。他說,大自然是最好的老師,要帶她去上叫“全國”的幼兒園,這樣她日后讀到“會當(dāng)凌絕頂,一覽眾山小”,會更有體會。
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“我一直覺得人生也就是一場旅行。第一次做爸爸,本來就是一個跟女兒共同成長,共同長大的一個過程。我自己從一個男孩變成一個父親。因?yàn)橛兴砩弦捕嗔艘环輷?dān)子跟責(zé)任。慢慢的,這份責(zé)任可能會演變成一些所謂的成熟也好,所謂的擔(dān)當(dāng)也好,都是一個互相長大的過程吧。”
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